My first child was a girl. My sweet baby Lyshie! She is now almost 12 years old and is not just my child, she's my friend. When Allysha was almost 7, we had our son, Jon. When I found out he was a boy from the ultrasound, my heart ached. I almost cried and conveyed my disappointment to my husband. You see, I've never been an energetic person. What would a woman who had a daughter for almost 7 years do with a boy? Surely, we would both be a disappointment to each other. My husband in his wisdom told me to look at this as something new we could share together. You see, I had lived quite a godless life before and had experienced many things before I had even met my wonderful Matt. He had a point...I needed to give myself up to this idea. Oh how God loves and moves in our lives! By the time my son was born, I was so in love with him. Today my Jon is 5 years old. What a true joy he has been and st...